Monday Minutiae – 02.15.2021

Extra Recess

Are you still getting your #friluftsliv on? I am. I’ll admit, during the work week, I have not been loving the sub-zero temps. I dress well enough for my daily commute, but the drive early in the morning is sometimes tricky, especially if we’ve gotten a little bit of snow, and basic errands in a pandemic are hard enough, let alone adding in always having to endure a cold car to do them.

Frozen waterfall with people walking "into" the waterfall.

On the weekends, though? My hikes have been A+. The sun has usually been out, the trails pretty, and my warm gear is warm. It’s a good workout and the deliberate welcoming of fresh air when I have the energy for it has done wonders.

A few more days of this super cold this week and we’ll be hitting upper 20s and low 30s again. I’ve managed the cold and done pretty well to (partly) embrace it, but don’t get me wrong, I will welcome the warmer temps again.

(Photo at right: Frozen waterfall! Minnehaha Falls in Minneapolis, MN)

Academic Stamina

I was thinking about this a bit over the past week as the remaining two grades in the elementary school I work in returned to in-person learning. Not hybrid, but full in-person learning for the families that still chose that. The safety to all is a different conversation, but what our teachers (and students) have been re-learning is stamina. We started out the year in full distance, then had a couple of months of hybrid learning (ie: no more than about 12 students in the classroom at a time), then full distance, and then to come back to full in-person? It’s a whole different kind of energy. I heard teachers talking about getting used to so many moving bodies and the extra stimulation and how that alone, is exhausting.

It got me thinking about later this calendar year or next year. How will we all adapt as most return (hopefully) to workplaces? For those with children, I’m sure there might be a feeling of relief, a respite. On the other hand, it is a different kind of energy and thinking of the article I posted two weeks ago, about how our many different kinds of relationships have changed or disappeared, I wonder if we are prepared for the transition. I wonder how my Youngest Child, currently in 8th grade, who has been doing quite well with distance learning, how he will do starting high school next fall in a presumably full in-person model? Will his anxiety, which has more or less simmered under a controlled temperature this year skyrocket?

It’s a good problem to worry about, but still one I think we should keep in the back of our heads so that it doesn’t take us completely unaware when the transition to another new normal arrives.

Curriculum Review

Looking for a book written by a BIPOC author? Or are you a BIPOC writer hoping to connect with an agent or editor who knows how to support you? The BIPOC Bookshelf is bigger and better every day. I’m pretty sure I’ve talked about the site before, but it’s worth another mention. It’s a great database to help you find the kinds of books you want to read and depending on your reading habits, encourage a more diverse reading experience.

Along those same lines, I read this post by Foz Meadows about the continuing problem of jaded reviews of works by BIPOC authors or authors from other underrepresented populations. For my own part, I’ve been frustrated with beta readers and other critiques of my work for having “too many” of a certain kind of character, even though none of them had any complaints about how many white, cis, straight, etc characters I had. And that’s not even close to what ACTUAL authors of the different lived experiences are having about representing their OWN experience. Before you write your next review of a book that is written by someone who doesn’t “look” like you, take a step back and pause. Is any of your negative criticism based upon the idea that you haven’t experienced what the characters have? I’ve made mistakes like that in the past, but I continue to learn and do better. We all have room to grow in this area.


I haven’t been writing as much lately, for a variety of reasons (one of which is I still have a story that’s trying to work itself out in my brain), which has left me LOTS of time to read and I’m off to an amazing start this year. For Christmas, Middle Child gave me a bulletin board map with pushpins so I can indicate the setting for each book I read this year. FUN. Here’s what it looks like so far. Pretty US-centric, but it’s only mid-February. Lots of time to broaden my horizons!

World map with push pins in various parts of the map.

Currently Reading (audio) Their Eyes Were Watching God  (A) – Zora Neale Hurston

Currently Reading (print) Amari and the Night Brothers (MG) – B.B. Alston

Song of the Week

Thank you to my friend Cerrissa for posting this a couple of days ago. It’s a re-make of Peter Gabriel’s “Biko”, recorded with artists from around the world and it’s a beautiful and better rendition than the original, IMO.

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Monday Minutiae – 02.01.2021

Assess and Re-Assess

At the end of last year, I finally, after a lot of resistance, tried out yoga for a bit, and while it didn’t “take” for me, I did come away with some good resources. One was Diane Bondy, who is fantastic for following on IG for body positivity and also Anna Guest-Jelley, who runs the Curvy Yoga Studio. I really appreciated a “safe” space for my body and trying out yoga. Here’s another reason I liked her approach. This was the first part of her newsletter this past weekend:

“I was creating a yoga video the other day, and it included a balance pose. I balanced fine on my left side, but my right side was a different story.

I was wobbly, and I fell out. I came back and tried again, and I fell out again. I then came back one more time, modified the pose in a different way, and made it work.

For a moment, I had a voice in my head tell me to start over. To edit that part out and make my balance appear to be effortless and the same from side-to-side. That voice told me that people have a lot more options for online yoga videos these days, and that those options are a lot more perfect than mine. 

As I was about to walk over to the camera to start over, I paused. And I just thought: Wait, is this what I’m trying to teach? Am I trying to teach perfection?”

And doesn’t this fit well with my One Word Resolution this  year of “elasticity”? For sure. The key bits from Anna’s words above are “tried again” and “modified the pose in a different way and made it work.”

I think we are all trying to modify things in a lot of different ways to make them work, don’t you?

Rigor and Stamina

I’ve been struggling with the continuing effects of our past four years of damaging rhetoric: the “can’t win for losing” arguments. The latest: who gets the vaccine. I’ve cheered every single time I’ve seen a photo go through my various social media feeds of someone I know getting the Covid-19 vaccine. And I think many were cheering when that first happened, but now I’m seeing complaints about fairness. I get the frustration. Vaccinations can’t happen fast enough as we are all weary of this pandemic and weary from the worrying about the virus. But, commonly, we’ve grown this idea that if someone hasn’t gotten the vaccine, yet, then it’s not still good that someone else HAS. I understand the impatience, I do. And yet, the more who DO receive the vaccination brings us closer to what we truly want: an end to all that is separating us.

Environmental Learning

Do you remember when the Danish concept of “hygge” was all the rage? My friend Marcia taught me a similar Norwegian equivalent:  friluftsliv. Lonely Planet writer, Sasha Brady says it is “a concept that roughly translates to ‘open-air-living’. It’s sort of like the Danish hygge, but where hygge is about finding comfort indoors, friluftsliv is about finding it outdoors.”

Snow-packed path through the forest

I’m a warm-weather fan. A HOT weather fan, but a couple of years ago, I looked at the upcoming winter and thought, I can keep dreading the neverending season of cold every year, or I can accept that this is where I live (MN) and re-learn how to enjoy it. There’s nothing wrong with staying inside and finding cozy activities, but winter lasts forever here and wouldn’t I be happier getting fresh air? When the sun is out is usually when we are at the coldest temps, but, SUN. So I bought better snow pants, hiking boots, and this year I added the snuggly earflap hat like hunters wear because, as my husband says, “there’s no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothing.”

Winter hiking is a different kind of beauty and exercise. And even better? No mosquitoes! And when I return home: cozy activities like reading (and maybe writing) await me. The best of both friluftsliv AND hygge.

Social Learning

I saw this article last week about another impact of pandemic living: missing out on our casual friends, acquaintances. It’s true, I think. Honestly, I have been pretty terrible at keeping up with my close friends and family let alone those I don’t see as often like neighbors or that same waiter we always have at Outback Steakhouse when my partner and I go out to eat for date night. “The way worlds are created is by people sharing with and recognizing each other,” says William Rawlins, a communications professor at Ohio University. When I look at things this way, I see how small our worlds have become and begin to understand why so many people are limited by what they watch on their TV. The more people we are exposed to, the more expansive our empathy. Frequently I notice some people do not do or believe certain things simply because it doesn’t affect them. But what happens when I witness my Black neighbor harassed for simply walking on their sidewalk? How do I feel when I find out that the waiter who told us all about her kids has died from Covid complications?

And what happens when I don’t know this happens, because I no longer see them, even casually?

The Atlantic article speaks to a lot of different ways casual relationships affect our lives. It’s an interesting read, highlighting situations I hadn’t fully noticed, but feel familiar.

Currently Reading (audio): The Lost Book of Adana Moreau – Michael Zapata (A)

Currently Reading (print): Your House Will Pay – Steph Cha

Song of the Week:

This is an old song (and an old video), but one of my friends shared it and it felt appealing on multiple levels. Enjoy the upbeat visual and message we can all try to hold onto for each other.

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Monday Minutiae – 01.18.2021

Spiral Instruction

Do you ever just get tired of yourself? I don’t mean in the serious, mental health concern way, but rather you pause and think, “I am in a rut, not a groove.” Like many, I have certainly been struggling with this whole pandemic thing and at the beginning, which is now eleventy billion years ago, I was ready to go with it and make it all work. And then it kept going.

And going.

And going.

And going.

Cue “Big Sigh.” So, I tell myself, “Okay, time to change things up!” (again) and at this point I balk a little at the work entailed in continuing to be creative, and yet it is also in my nature to keep doing it, even if at a much slower pace right now. Here’s what I’m trying right now: returning to knitting, returning to this blog to keep me from staying inside my head too much, returning to writing (eventually) something new, changing up the exercise/movement routines, tackling house projects that everyone else in the world tackled ten months ago. Do you see the pattern of “returning” included with the new? Everything is a cycle.

Plus, I’m remembering the vaccine is coming. We have a long way to go ahead of this, but the proverbial light at the end is finally visible.

What about you? What are you doing to get over yet more hurdles during this time?

Language Elective

I started reading Fredrik Backman’s latest, Anxious People and both the writer AND language instructor in me got a kick out of a couple of early lines.

"Okeydokey!" the real estate agent chirrups, as if that were a real Swedish word.

Backman’s books are originally published in his native language of Swedish, so as I read this translated copy, I wonder, did Backman truly write “okeydokey” in English, and thus the translation above is quite literal? Or was there some other nonsense word in there instead?

And then there’s this:

"It's called House Tricks! Get it? Because when you buy an apartment, you want to buy from someone who knows all the tricks, don't you? So when I answer the phone, I say: Hello, you've reached the House Tricks Real Estate Agency! HOW'S TRICKS?"

This translation of the real estate agency is based upon a play on words. Did the translator have to come up with something completely different than what the Swedish version was? And if so, how difficult was that to do?

I did some digging to see if I could find out. So far, I’ve not found an answer, but I did find this fun interview of Neil Smith about translating literature in general and what I most appreciated was this: “Capturing the tone of a book is simultaneously the most difficult and the most rewarding part of the job: once you’ve nailed that, the rest flows fairly naturally.” So many great bits in the interview, I highly encourage you to check it out.

Test Prep

Are you curious about the publishing journey? About the process behind what authors do once their book is on the verge of getting out in the world and into readers’ hands? Author and avid reader/podcaster Zibby Owens has a really great post that highlights many things the average reader might not know. (h/t Kathleen West)

Currently Reading (print): Anxious People (A) -Fredrik Backman

Currently Reading (audio): The Sound of Stars (YA) – Alechia Dow

Song of the Week:

I’m going with hope this week, even though I have a bit of nervousness, too.

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Monday Minutiae – 01.04.2021

Reflection Journal

I think it goes without saying that 2020 had a lot of tough moments-hours-days-months. My family has been extraordinarily lucky in that we all still have our jobs and have been Covid-free (as far as we know), and that in itself is a huge win. The start of the school year was the roughest one I’ve ever had (and I’m not even a classroom teacher anymore, so go figure THAT) and while I still love my job, it’s more exhausting than usual and harder to step back, even when that is exactly what I need to do sometimes. The plus side, though, is I work with a great team. On occasion I wonder how I would do if I were still teaching vs. doing tech support and I think I’d be okay. I have a wealth of varying educational experiences in my background (including online teaching) which would help ease some of the continual changes and transitions this school year continues to bring.

Personally, I cycle through the pockets of joy and pits of despair a little quicker than I used to, but the key has been to remind myself the cycle will continue. I try to focus on the wins: I finished another manuscript this past year. I have ideas for another. We have new, better leadership ahead. Great books continue to get published and I get to read them. 😀 We have a vaccine.

Learning Objective

My one-word resolution last year was FLOW. On retrospect, what a prescient choice it was! I wrote last year, “I’m leaning into my personal motto of “It’ll all work out” and allowing myself the slower transition to some professional changes and taking deep breaths as I prepare to query my latest novel.” As the year turned into something few of us could have predicted, I know I made conscious choices to truly let myself flow with it all. It’s not like it was always easy, but I think I did well with it. This year I considered “resilience”, but I think a more accurate resolution is ELASTICITY. On the one hand, one definition is the ability to resume an original shape after being stretched, but the second definition given is the one I most want to zero in on: “ability to change and adapt”. Honestly, I pride myself on already being able to do this, but as I look ahead at some personal challenges I have for myself, I foresee needing an elasticity beyond what I’ve had. Bring it, 2021.

Reading Minutes

What would my first post of the calendar year be if I didn’t reflect upon my reading goals? And no, I don’t set a number of books to read as a goal because A) stressful and B) I don’t need a goal to keep me reading. (No criticism of those who have a goal of # of books! It’s just not for me!) Instead, I’ve been continually trying to increase the percentage of books I read to be from #ownvoices – ie: authors from underrepresented populations and writing of their own lived experiences.

2018: 45% of books I read were #ownvoices

2019: 46% of books I read were #ownvoices

2020: 57% of books I read were #ownvoices

I’m really proud of my progress. I don’t really have a goal percentage, but higher is always better! The best part, though, is I read so many truly great books, which is really the whole point, of course.

National Standards

Here are some of my top reads of 2020:


On Earth We Are Briefly Gorgeous – Ocean Vuong

Loathe at First Sight – Suzanne Park

Such a Fun Age – Kiley Reid

Love Lettering – Kate Clayborn

The Mountains Sing – Nguyễn Phan Quế Mai

Salvage the Bones – Jesmyn Ward

The Vanishing Half – Brit Bennett

All the Devils Are Here – Louise Penny

You Had Me at Hola – Alexis Daria

Get a Life, Chloe Brown – Talia Hibbert

The City We Became – N.K. Jemison


Like a Love Story – Abdi Nazemian

Picture Us in the Light – Kelly Loy Gilbert

Punching the Air – Ibi Zoboi and Yusef Salaam


A Good Kind of Trouble – Lisa Moore Ramée

Continuing Education

If you are active on Instagram, or would like to be, I have some recommendations!

For racial and social justice, I have found great value in the following accounts. They tell it straight and keep me on top of news and awareness:





I tried to get into yoga, but wasn’t successful. I did, however, hang onto this great account. She posts like crazy, but also, the posts are super body-affirming:


Writers! These particular ones are delving into some great IGTV series about writing, books, and motivation:






Currently Reading (print): A Thousand Questions (MG)– Saadia Faruqi

Currently Reading (audio): When Dimple Met Rishi (YA)– Sandhya Menon

Song of the Week:

It’s a new year, hopefully a better one. Let’s go with “Good Things” by the Bodeans

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